I am passionate about children and intimate relationships. For this instance I think I’ll focus on the latter for excitement sake though, lol. When I began to realize the amount of dysfunction, misinformation, ignorance, confusion, and hurt that sex held for so many people was largely caused by such simple missteps and illogical social norms I was horrified and moved to action. I began to research and interrogate and hypothesize  and stand on my soapbox and preach lol. Even the social stigma of what I, a female, was discussing in a midwestern setting did nothing to deter me. Jealous and fearful females and unsatisfied and frustrated males in American were nothing compared to the seemingly unending parade of transgressions against sexuality that people unknowingly perpetuated. They were helping to create their own unhappiness and that of future generations without even knowing the depth of the satisfaction they were causing to remain unattainable. And its not isolated to the US either. There are plenty of other countries in equally heart wrenching dysfunction but shockingly unique and painful dynamics.

If i could manage to reach 180 women the first month I began my mission and advertised my intentions then imagine what kind of domino effect I could create over time and with more information and resources? Talk about the power of one small yet determined voice! So I’m the nerdy cute chick who reads and bookmarks sex articles in her spare time to go out into the world and start unexpected conversations about sex with people I’ve just met and teenagers seeking advice about other things and online don juans expecting dirty talk instead. I am the unexpected pop-up add giving sex education instead of porn site ratings! So watch out world I’m only picking up steam!

I’m tired of not having people available when I get around to playing. So I’m working on making some solid connections nearby and in the cities. Then I know who I can count on, availability, and their interests. Whether I want to do something on the spur of the moment or planned ahead. So I want to meet new friends, mentors, sidekicks, males/females/couples for playmates, and people I can help with my creative planning/problem solving. I have been in the lifestyle going on 6 years and have made enough mistakes to have a sense of my limits and fantasies and type of partners I prefer.

I am deeply attracted to and deep appreciation for women of all shapes and sizes. But I am new at trying to attract and pleasure them and would love some guidance or direction. I live in a rural area so I can’t just run down to the local LGBTQ bar and get shot down practicing! So any ladies, no matter how you identify, I would love to hear your advice, get a chance to practice talking with you (feel free to have fun giving me feedback on my failings after), or get to know you better.

As for men? Everyone we choose, no matter the sexual role or orientation, has a optimal list of things we are looking for. However, we are not vain jerks and so there are exceptions on a per individual basis! This is simply my wishlist of perfection.

*Physically fit

*Circumcised

*Penis minimum 7″ long, 6″ circumference

*Age 20-50

*Respectful/manners

*Intelligent or at least not ignorant

*Makes me laugh

*Disease free w/ proof

*Showers and pubic hair trimmed/waxed/shaved

*Willing to sign agreement if becoming repeat partner