Straight Male

Sean

1986-03-14

Women

Married

NJ

United States

One of the best compliments I ever received was from my grandmother. She said, out of all her grandchildren, my life was the most “interesting.” I actually agree and do  consider myself an interesting person as my life has been and continues to be interesting– my masterpiece art work, really.

I’ve been a hippie, a writer and poet, a politician, on the edge of homelessness, I once had $100,000+ in my bank account (inherited from my father and sadly wasted), I was both a college drop out and ultimately graduated with a 3.98 GPA. I’ve been excessively logical and excessively irrational/subjective.  I’ve worked in grocery stores, liquor stores, bars, restaurants, ice cream parlors, a cafe, colleges and universities, and currently I work at an animal shelter and study at a dog trainers’ school. I’ve been staunchly monogamous and now I’m polyamorous. My marriage has been both on the brink of divorce and in states of sacred and privileged harmony. I’ve been depressed, anxious, high, drunk, and consciously sober I’ve been shy AF and ashamed about my intense erotophilia (love of sex) and I now embrace it so confidently and proudly that I’ve begun applying to the best ethical, female produced porn companies on the planet!  

All of that being said….I’ve not yet done much of the sexual exploration I wish to do and I’m looking for poly-sapio women to feel erotic sparks with. I’m also seeking women to make women produced ethical porn for women with. I’m new to both this site and lifestyle. 

I’m happily married to my wife who is also my best friend and my primary lover and life partner. So I also want to have relationships with women who respect my wife and our marriage. We’ve been together and monogamous since 2008, married since 2015, and open/poly since this previous summer.

I’m a dog trainer working at an animal shelter.

I used to be a grad school student on track to being a published poet and creative writing professor but I fell in love with dogs and out of love with poetry, though I still write…about dogs, lol.

Actually, interestingly to me, is the realization that dog training actually has allowed me to delve deeper and more concretely into the philosophical and poetic meditations re: the human condition/experience. Humanness has come to be clearer when I talk and play with and train dogs.

For fun I like to learn more about the law of attraction (from identifying my deepest desires to making them come true. [How tempted I was to say “cum” true, haha– you know, as a nod to this awesome site]) and having sex. One of my fantasies is being a porn actor as a hobby.

I would say my style of sex is erotic. By that, even when I feel like I just want to fuck, I like to accompany the fucking with a lot of hands touching up and down each other’s bodies, and kissing. You know…making love!

Actually, I really love kissing, and think it serves as a good litmus test regarding women I tend to feel a genuine and erotic connection. Would I like to kiss her?

I also love oral sex. Taking turns giving and receiving.

I love the sounds women make when they cum. It’s sort of my ultimate sexual high! Of course, it’s not ABOUT the orgasm. It’s about the intimacy and love-making– the orgasm is just the awesome fireworks show, so to speak. It’s about giving each other pleasure.

I want to sext— have never really done it and can’t wait to get started!

For most of my life, I have lived so abstractly within my mind that I’m actually only now really discovering the essence and nature of pleasure and its beauty and how romantic, erotic and spiritual it is to share.

The best sexual experience I’ve ever had thus far…I’ll tell you in private if you want to know. (I hope to learn how to tease more). Just “hit me up yo” i.e., send me a message and let’s just see what happens.

Another one of my fantasies is…. (see previous paragraph)

Enjoy your day! 🙂

Star Trek, Frasier, and Club de Cuervos

The Paper Chase, Saturday Night Fever

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