The world of kink is amazing! Most who are curious about BDSM, kink, Dom or Submissive roleplay are always a little apprehensive about it at first because they visualize it as a dark, spooky space to enter. It’s not like that at all! I started off as a swinger. I was, and still am, a single and still consider myself a swinger but I am also into kink, bdsm, dominant/submissive roleplay and impact play. Being a swinger for years and mainly a dominant bull for couples was and still is amazing. At first, I would never have imagined myself getting into kinkier play but I kind of just evolved into those activities. Having hot sex with beautiful women is a lot of fun of course. However, during my lifestyle journey I learned that ladies were often requesting “freakier” activities in the bedroom…. Certain play partners I met on naughtyswingers.xyz were asking for more that just missionary or doggystyle sex positions. They would request being choked, spanked, slapped or called dirty names like “slut”, “whore”, “dirty girl”, “princess”, “daddy’s girl” etc…. Some ladies would like more extreme kink or bondage like being spit on, pissed on(water sports), having their nipples or clits clamped, being hand cuffed or being tied up with rope or the use of bed restraints. Some ladies would have CNC fantasies(consensual non consensual rape fantasies) that I would help them fulfill. I enjoyed it all and enjoyed the so called “Darker Side” of sex. It added another dimension to sexual stimulation. Ever had a woman “milk you” or “breast feed” you because she can still produce milk? Trust me, it may seem too freaky at first but don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. As I stated, one of my favorite parts of the BDSM world is the tactic of impact play. Impact play is basically exactly what it sounds like. You are hitting someone with your hand or an object. Usually a paddle, flogger, whip or belt. The goal is to have your partner reach a truly submissive state mentally through the impact play while not truly physically harming them. Even though your partner is submissive they are still in control of the intensity they will receive during the impact play session and it’s always good to have a “safe word” to use like “yellow” or “red” if the play is becoming too intense for them. These terms let you as the dominant know to ease up some.  “Aftercare” is recommended after any impact play or Dom/sub play session and it is basically the added attention given to your submissive after a session. It can include gently rubbing or massaging the area of your sub’s body that received the impact. Cuddling is also welcome. Your submissive reaches a deep mental submissive state and needs attention and companionship while “coming down” from such a mental high. A good Dom or dominant always provides aftercare for his submissive because even though they may not be in the same mental space as their sub they should still understand where their partner is mentally. Other aspects of the kink world that I love is the fetish clothing and wear. I love a lady wearing a choker, collar, corset or leather boots and other kink attire. It’s all very sexy to me and I have learned to really admire and appreciate women who have a freaky side to them. I have been on many first dates in my life but the one I remember the most is when I met a woman online and we met at a local bar for drinks. We talked a little and had a great connection. You would assume that after we left the bar together we would have had some sort of normal sexual activities but that wasn’t the case. We walked to the back of the parking lot where I was parked. She lifted up her skirt and bent over the hood of my car and I spanked her until her whole ass was bright red! It was epic. Then we went our separate ways but we connected for multiple Dom/sub roleplay sessions later. Well I hope you enjoyed my article on these topics and if you are interested in talking more about these topics or if you’re looking for any advice my profile name is “Darkfantasiegrp” on naughtyswingers.xyz