NSA Dating is becoming more and more popular as people are turning away from seeking traditional long term relationships. Nowadays the cost of living seems to keep going up, especially in the US and European countries and wages are not increasing at the same rate. This is causing the average person to have to try and manage a successful love life along with a 40-60 hour(sometimes longer) work week. THAT’S HARD! It’s tough to find the time to invest in building a sustainable, loving relationship when you’re locked in 10 hours a day on a work project…. However, we still have sexual needs!

This creates a problem between potential partners. One person may just be looking for sexual gratification because they don’t feel as though they have the time for a serious relationship while the other person may be thinking long term… Ever had a wonderful night of passionate, amazing great sex only to be ghosted by the other person? Don’t be upset, you’re not the only one this has happened to. Ghosting is becoming more prevalant in the dating scene because people find it easier to just not respond rather than to be honest about how they really feel about you and your chances of fitting in their personal life. A person only looking for sex, but knows that if they tell you that upfront it may ruin their chances of getting in your pants, will string you along as if they are looking for a long term relationship. They will tell you everything they think you want to hear to appear like a great long term candidate until they seal the deal and then boom, you get ghosted! They stop responding to your text messages, calls or avoiding you at the office in hopes that you will just go away because they got all that they really wanted from you. SEX! Yes, of course it’s natural to feel hurt by this and it’s definitely ok to feel angered but the issue is not with you, IT’S THEM! They should have been honest in the beginning about what they truly wanted. So don’t let them ruin your long term relationship goals and continue to seek out that perfect mate you’re in search of. They are out there!

So how do we lessen the chances of getting ghosted or avoid having to mislead someone when you are only looking for sex??? Well the answer has been around for decades and the best thing about it is usually no one gets hurt and no feelings of anger have to be had. It’s called “No Strings Attached” dating or NSA dating! NSA dating is a form of dating where both people agree that no long term relationship is to be had or at least that is not what either person is initially looking for. NSA dating is great and becoming way more popular nowadays. Sex is talked about more freely than ever before and expressed more freely in movies, music, social media etc… Heck everyone knows what WAP stands for even if you don’t listen to Megan Thee Stallion or Cardi B. (That’s “Wet Ass Pussy” for those who have been living under a rock…) The fact that sex or nsa sex is becoming less of a taboo is a great thing for individuals who are having trouble balancing a career and lovelife but still looking to have their sexual needs satisfied. It’s no longer looked down upon to have a no strings attached sexual relationship with someone!

Have you ever heard of the term “Friends with Benefits?” Friends with benefits is an awesome relationship to have but sometimes, well more often than not, it can go wrong. Why? Well these relationships usually start between two people at work, school etc.. Being friends with benefits at work, school or even in the neighborhood is tough because even though we say “sex is just sex” it’s not… When you have great sex with someone, especially consistently, feelings can develop in one or both sexual partners. At that point it is no longer just sex… In order to prevent that from happening it’s best to have some separation/distance between the both of you after sex so it’s easier to not develop those feelings. Not seeing the other person helps you get your mind off of them easier and lets you focus on other priorities you have in life. The fact that you both may actually see each other on a weekly or even daily basis at work or wherever makes being just friends with benefits tough. Even though some people try to define it as NSA dating it’s not because there are still strings attached… If you have to see someone at work, school or in the neighborhood chances are that you both have mutual friends, co-workers, classmates etc. Those are strings…. You may have to do work projects together or be assigned to do a school project together. Those are strings also. You may get invited to a neighbors holiday party and your friend with benefits will be there. Those are strings too…. So that’s why trying to have a no strings attached friend with benefits is very difficult and hardly works out. Don’t worry though. There is a better way to find a true NSA relationship!

With the internet changing the dating scene and how we go about finding new partners there are sites now available where you can find sex buddies without strings being involved. It’s a NSA dating paradise! They don’t work in the same building, live in your neighborhood or go to the same college you do either. Years ago people used to seek out nsa partners placing personals in newspapers and on websites like craigslist. Craigslist was actually one of the most popular sites ever for finding others who were looking for no strings attached dating but unfortunately prostitutes and human traffickers used the site also for illegal purposes and the personals were shut down. Now there are new sites for swingers and bdsm enthusiasts where you can find other like minded individuals who are looking for sexual gratification without commitment to a long term relationship. Swingers are couples and singles who are normally looking for no strings attached dating and meet ups with others. They are looking for sexual gratification with no strings attached. Most call it the “Swinging Lifestyle!”

The swinging lifestyle and swingers is a great option for people who are just looking to have mature, adult fun without feelings getting involved. I myself became a swinger years ago when I was having issues balancing a crazy work life and dating. I must say it has brought me much joy and some really sexy, TRUE friends with benefits. The greatest thing about these swinging sites is that everyone usually tells you right upfront what naughty things they are looking for in the bedroom. That way it is easier to gauge if that person is a fit for you sexually or not. You can search for people who live near you, are in a particular age rage that you are seeking and so forth. People are into all sorts of things like BDSM, hotwife or stag & vixen scenarios, cuckold scenarios, transgender dating, pegging, cupping, queen of spades roleplay and more. Some things you may be into also or not but it’s ok. You have the option to pick and choose who you want to reach out to and take it from there. Also, people may reach out to you in hopes of meeting up. Maybe you can teach them something new or they can teach you. No matter what usually someone listed on these sites are usually just looking for sexual gratification and not a long term relationship. Well at least not at first. Try no strings attached dating out for yourself now! Visit our site www.naughtyswingers.xyz to get started now and make your first NSA dating profile!