Couple

Couple(Bi M, Bi F)

Swankysexxy

1977-08-19

Threesomes, Soft Swap, Public Sex, Watching, Clubs, Bi Play, Group Sex, Parties, Women, Couples, Transgender

Married

NJ

United States

Married couple, Jersey Shore. Been doing this long enough to know what we like and long enough to have watched a few clubs open and close.

He’s 49, fifteen years of CrossFit behind him, and the extrovert of the pair — the one who starts the conversation and makes the introductions. If you’ve been hovering nearby working out whether to say something, don’t bother. He’ll get there first.

She’s 42, blonde, blue eyes, and a peacock. She wants to be looked at, and the more people looking the further she goes. She doesn’t need to say much — people find their way to her on the floor and she’s happy to let them. He picks what she wears, which she’d tell you is the best part of getting ready: no decisions to make, just handed something and told how long she gets to keep it on.

It works out neatly. She draws the room in. He starts the conversation.

What we’re after: couples and women who actually go out. The dance floor is the point for us, not the thing you do until something better happens — and it’s where a night genuinely starts. Bi and bi-comfortable women especially; she has a very good time with women and it usually happens in the middle of a crowd rather than behind a door.

With the right couple this has gone well past one night — dinner, a day out, the whole thing. That’s the rare find.

One practical note so nobody’s guessing: she’s soft swap with men. Everything else is open.

Members at Saints & Sinners and Club Friction, out at the Philly rooms and the Jersey parties, and we’ll be at the Atlantic City club the day it reopens.

Whatever's on while she's getting ready. Which is a lot of TV.

Whichever one has an audience.

Couples and women who actually go out. She's happiest with a woman on a dance floor, and he's happiest watching it happen. Bi and bi-comfortable women especially. What we're really after is the couple we click with enough to keep seeing.