My name is Dr. Rebecca Brown and I am a regenerative medicine doctor specializing in sexual dysfunction and sexual health. My goal is to optimize your sexual health. As we all know…things change as you get older! Mostly for the better in terms of mood, maturity, and learning more about your body and your sexuality. Unfortunately, there are things that can change for the worse as we age… Things that are beyond our control. People start to experience sexual problems. Sometimes even in your 30s! As people who are active in the swingers lifestyle, this can be really hard to accept. Are we never going to be able to have the good sex we used to? Am I going to satisfy my partner? Why am I not getting as hard as I used to? Why am I not getting as wet as I used to? Why does it suddenly hurt to have sex?

As part of the natural aging process, our tissue gets thinner and less plump and we start to build up plaque in the arteries. Diseases like high blood pressure, diabetes and even just poor diet and inflammation just accelerate this process. Even for those of us in the best of health these changes are inevitable.

Testosterone is important for both men and women. Testosterone levels start to decline in our 30s, and if you have had COVID, you may have a drastic drop in testosterone levels as well as an increase in inflammation afterwards. For women, estrogen and progesterone levels start to drop too. These changes in hormones can cause severe pain while having casual sex due to decreased lubrication, thinning of the tissue and decreased sensitivity. As one patient said “rubbing my clitoris feels like you are rubbing my forehead”. No one wants that!!

As we age, we physically start to lose mass in the tissue of the penis and vagina. This means that the penis isn’t quite as full, the clitoris isn’t as responsive, and a woman’s labia can also thin out. Some men may have an issue with Peyronie’s disease, or a curvature in the penis, that is not a big deal when you’re younger, but starts to get more pronounced as we age. Peyronie’s disease can be mild and not cause any pain or discomfort. (And as we all know from the swinging experience, a little curve can be extra fun in the bedroom ). But for some men, the scar tissue that causes Peyronie’s thickens and tightens. This causes the penis to disfigure even more. This can cause a lot of pain especially when you have an erection or during casual sex.

As people who are enjoying the swingers lifestyle, these are difficult changes to have to face. As all of these hormones decrease you have less energy, increased depression and you start to notice an increase in that belly fat creeping in. Plus your sex drive plummets! With all of the physical changes I’ve even heard some people say they don’t even want to bother anymore. This is not for us! Especially if you enjoy the swingers or poly lifestyle. It breaks my heart to see people give up like that! Do you just walk away from something you love because your body is betraying you? I am here to say “NO”! There are natural and easy solutions for all of these problems. I can help you today!!

There are THREE interventions that I do to address these very disturbing symptoms in both men and women.

1. 1. Hormone optimization: I check hormone levels, as well as testosterone and general labs to check for diabetes and thyroid problems (which can also affect sex hormones).  If your hormones are off, then we treat you. We use bio identical hormone pellets. These are natural and inserted under the skin every few months in a quick 10 minute procedure. Within weeks you are feeling better, energy levels are up and your body is starting to reverse some of the damage that is caused by low testosterone. We want you to be feeling like your 20 year old self… Not your middle-aged self. As a fantastic side effect, testosterone protects your heart, increases lean muscle mass and helps with depression and anxiety. Best of all, it gives you that energy to get back to doing what you love, SEX!
   2. Acoustic wave therapy: Acoustic wave therapy (aka: GAINSwave) is a painless, less than 15 minute procedure using sound waves. It targets the blood vessels in the penis and the vagina. It breaks up plaque in the arteries (the same plaque that causes heart attacks and strokes) allowing for MUCH better blood flow as an immediate effect , but  also stimulates the growth of NEW blood vessels so you have fresh new blood vessels in the penis and vagina. This allows for more tissue swelling, increased sensitivity, and harder erections… Not to mention mind blowing orgasms!
   3. P shot an O shot: Now I’ve saved the best for last

Here’s to more mind blowing sex!! Cum check us out, and keep cumming

www.BalanceBklyn.com

Rebecca Brown,MD